The best way to know about first sugar dates is to know from the sugar babies themselves, today we have interviewed a sugar baby who shared with us her experiences and life lessons learnt. While we aren’t mentioning her name for privacy reasons, she has been open and honest about her sugar life.
How did you find your first sugar daddy?
I met an older man at work and started a relationship with him, at the time I dint realize it was a sugar relationship though he would give me cash and gifts on a regular basis. However the first official sugar daddy I reached out to was through an online sugar dating portal.
When did you decide to meet after contacting him online?
After talking online for a day through the portal, we decided to meet since we seemed to have much in common. We met at a nice restaurant in our area since we realized we were both looking for similar things from a sugar relationship.
Tell us about the first date, where did you go?
It was a high end restaurant that both of us were familiar with since it was in our locality. The dinner went very well so we headed to the movies after that and then said goodnight. Going for dinner and a movie is a great way to spend a first date, if you don’t want to commit to dinner then drinks and a show should be a good idea too.
Should a sugar baby expect to receive money after the first date?
It is always better to go in without expecting cash on the first date. However some sugar daddies are generous and hand you a wad of cash right after the first date. It really all depends on the daddy.
How do you decide if you want to see a potential sugar daddy again?
Did you have fun on the date? Did you enjoy the time spent with him? These are the two main questions that can help you decide. Knowing that you are compatible can help as can the knowledge that he is a generous man. If you feel comfortable around him and feel he is offering you a good allowance then go ahead and set up a second date. If you don’t feel like this is the type of person you would like to have as a sugar daddy then asking for a higher allowance than you would usually ask could be a way to get him to not call you again.
What should a newbie sugar baby know before heading out on her first sugar date?
Be confident. Another advice is to fake it till you make it. Go with your gut instinct when it comes to taking decisions about people. If something doesn’t feel right, it likely isn’t. Remember that there are many great sugar daddies out there, don’t settle for less or put up with any type of abuse.